A friend is seeking help, his exact words: I am 23 this year, with no romantic experience, and I have fallen in love with a woman who is ten years older than me. I don't know if it's appropriate to use the word love, but I often think about her for a long time at night, and I want to be with her like a couple. We have known each other for about three months now. When we first connected, we talked a lot, but then she suddenly stopped replying. After that, we had plans to go out, but on that day due to some small matters, she suddenly said on WeChat that there was no result. I talked to her for a long time, and then I deleted her. Afterward, because I couldn't let her go, I added her back. Until now, we have gone out once, and I have invited her out several times, but it feels like she prefers to find excuses. The last time was when she said she was in a bad mood and then went out riding a motorcycle with a male friend. This made me very sad, but I haven't given up; I still feel like I can't let her go. In between, I asked many people for advice. Some said to give up; there's no chance. Others said they weren't too sure. Sometimes I feel there is a great opportunity, and sometimes I feel there is no chance at all; it's always fluctuating. I want to hear everyone's opinions and would also like to hear from female readers who stay up late. Thank you.