Just because you can do everything doesn't mean someone will fall in love with you.

And it won't be because you are stable in your job, considerate, always thinking about others, or a warm man that someone will remember you.

Many boys, when shaping their value, mostly have "tool-type" traits: considerate, family-oriented, good education, can help children with homework in the future, stable job, has time to accompany family, can cook, can do laundry, can manage household chores.

But what is truly charming value?

It is being good-looking, being wealthy, having confidence, having strength, having taste, having talent.

It is having the courage to make decisions and also to bear the consequences.

It is a stable inner self, that kind of self-consistency of "even if you look down on me, I don't care."

It is the courage to pursue what you love.

And it is also not needing to rely on others' recognition.

You can still live your life well.