Why can suffering make women feel love?
I just came across a video: Women inherently like to be mistreated by men, even if they are strong women.
I immediately thought of my cousin.
A surgeon at a top-tier hospital, with doctoral students under her who are not much younger than her. Last month, her husband flipped the table and smashed the dishes on the floor just because she put too much salt in a dish.
She was stunned for two seconds, then squatted down to pick up the pieces, one by one.
My blood pressure shot up to 180 as I stood beside her.
I asked her, "What are you doing this for?"
Without looking up, she said, "You don't understand, he's been under a lot of pressure lately."
Later I found out that when her husband is stressed, he deletes her on WeChat. After he deletes her, she has to apply to add him back, and the reason for the request has to be "I was wrong."
Once, he didn't accept her request for three days. She cried right at the door of the operating room. The head nurse thought there was an accident during surgery and turned pale with fear.
Another former colleague, the CEO of a startup, raised several million. Her boyfriend sent her cat, which she had raised for three years, away because he thought she was too busy.
She didn't break up with him.
She said she indeed spent too little time with him, and she could raise another cat.
I asked, "Then why don't you replace him?"
She replied, "You don't understand, he treats me pretty well."
Like how?
She said, "When he gets angry, he will block me, but after a couple of days, he unblocks me himself. This shows he is trying to control his emotions."
I was left speechless, really, I didn't know what to say.
